Grape Harvest

To get to the grapes we had to take a narrow road into the countryside, in fact risking life and limb.  But before we even got to that point we made one stop, a mission of mercy.  My host mother’s sister lay on one of three beds in a hospital room for the indigent where she had already been operated on for kidney stones, not a pleasant predicament.  Our whole carload piled out and took the crowded elevator up where we were met by several immediate relatives of the patient.  We all gathered around the patient’s bed filling the far end of the ward.  All three patients were fully clothed and it wasn’t even apparent why the other two women were there.  But “our” patient was definitely uncomfortable.  In just a few moments several family members began fiddling with the IV.  I had never seen so many hands on an IV.  Fortunately someone had the sense to fetch the nurse who attached a new drip.  Family and friends care for their “patients” here, bringing in their own fans, fruit and faith.  Leaving grandma and grandpa behind, we headed for the farm. 
As I noticed the sharp drop-off at the side of the concrete road, dodging oncoming motorcycles and motorized pedicabs, had me on edge.  The drainage ditches on either side of the road were deep and forboding.  Vehicles of all shapes and sizes entered the stream of traffic without hesitation or foresight.  Farmers are intrepid.  Our farm was part of a gathering of simple concrete block houses at the end of the road. 
Our entrance was through the kitchen where mother was hard at work preparing a meal filled with the fruit of the harvest.  We were invited into the east-facing courtyard where large platters of fat juicy purple grapes and round yellow pears greeted us.  We sat under a tree heavily laden with still green grapefruit.  This is where I first learned to happily peel grapes.  It is easy, the fruit is large, and the pesticides can thus be avoided.  In addition someone was always peeling a pear and offering sections.  How could I refuse?  Mind you–this in the context of someone who doesn’t even particularly like fruit.  As I gazed around the small outdoor living space I felt like I was in Provence or Tuscany.  Very tanned and wizened, grandpa, the head farmer came to sit opposite me on a small stool.  I had been forewarned that he was a Chinese teacher at the nearby primary school.  I can just picture him wielding the stick over pupils who need reminding that writing characters over and over in special notebooks is part of growing up in China.  His first statement directed at me through my host “son” was that Americans and Chinese have different values regarding family and he was so right.  I was rather surprised by this incisive judgment from a country farmer however and took a moment to respond. 
My host son invited me for a stroll through the farm, an area well-known to him for he had been coming here since early childhood and had played in every conceivable corner of the territory.  We walked on narrow raised pathways through loquats, pears, grapes, squash,lotus ponds, peppers and beans.  Little did I notice that my legs were lunch for a horde of tiny black biting creatures.  It took a day or two to figure that out. 
 At lunch time little sister or “meimei” as she is called, broke down, impeded in her efforts to eat, by a loose lower front tooth.  It was frightening and perhaps painful for her.  There was little comfort available however since toothfairies apparently don’t visit Chinese homes.  At one end of the table the local “Snow” brand beer was flowing.  So soon after finishing I retired to the children’s area, the open-walled livingroom with couches and the big screen in full force.  Eventually the cook joined us and I had my opportunity to try to speak “putongua” or Mandarin.  These people however only speak Sichuanese among themselves.
  When I asked to use the toilet, I was escorted there personally by grandma who to my surprise saw this as a social moment.  So there I was in a large farm shed, straddling a deep trench where you could clearly see all sorts of recent compost shining in the sunlight.  Since grandma was in the room I motioned to the tray of cornhusks which were clearly there for a reason and she motioned to the box of paper tissues.  So much for the American sense of privacy.  Of course grandma had to go too which made the experience mutual. 
Whiling away the afternoon hours we saw quite a bit of television while the youngest children ran around collecting pebbles, putting them in a broken plastic bottle and having doused them in water, watched them freeze in the livingroom freezer.  Eventually my host brother invited me for a drive up the mountain.  This time the precipitous edge of the road was even more precipitous as we rounded hairpin turn after hairpin turn.  Every time we approached a curve the driver honked in the event a vehicle might be descending the mountain or this very much single lane road.  Encountering a large truck, we had to squeeze ourselves smack dab against the mountain, while he edged around us on the outside.  As the foliage began to change and more pine-like trees appeared we ran up against a large tow-truck like vehicle with two women riding in the back, holding on for dear life  They simply could not make one of the sharp turns no matter how many times they stopped, retreated and tried again.  One man was out of the cab, placing large rocks behind the tires so that they would not actually roll backwards over the edge.  They were ineffectual however.  Eventually the women passengers got out as well.  I think perhaps they wanted to live.  I took this opportunity to convince my driver that it was time to return where we had come from since eventually night would fall and manuvering these corners would become increasingly challenging.  I may have come across as a wimp but believe me that ride back down the mountain was a relief for this squeemish one.  Although our way to the top had been impeded, I had had more than enough excitement that afternoon.
  A visit to the farm meant staying for a second meal as well but we managed to squeeze in a game of frisbee in the community courtyard first.  It was easy enough to drag the kids away from their games.  So “gege” or big brother, “didi” or little brother, “meimei”, my host brother and I had a rousing ground of frisbee.  All the neighbors eventually came out to watch.  Was it the strange large white lady with white hair doing sport with all ages or was it the strange game of frisbee tossing which had their attention? 
As we drove off that evening our trunk was full of harvest: a huge basket of fat purple grapes, bags of pears and large bunches of greens.  The back seat of the car held innumerable people as well, including “didi” who was coming to spend time and play with “meimei”, didi’s mother and more people than I can count.  As I knew we were on our way to pick grandma up at the hospital, I wondered how we would manage, but apparently seat belts are no issue here. 
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17 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. dale ott
    Aug 14, 2010 @ 10:25:45

    An interesting blog, Judy. Appreciated the detail of grape harvest — having picked my share of grapes in California.

    Enjoyed the description you gave of being accompanied to the WC — almost like you were on a guided tour to that special “region.” All that, while being provided with some “needed” social life as well.

    Best from

    Dale

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  2. sam
    Aug 14, 2010 @ 11:05:43

    Judy, I really enjoy reading your blog – you deliver me some expansive travel of mind to all kinds of edges of humanity and I can imagine that not only those little meimeis and didis and geges all appreciate your play and openness with them but also their grown ups.

    Hope to be in Asia soon again, too!

    Love from Berlin – zaijian – Samantha

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  3. Ken & Mary Aeschbacher
    Aug 14, 2010 @ 12:02:19

    Sounds like a different kind of farm life than I grew up with. Interesting people and customs.
    The mountain road must have been a challenging experience. Did you see any vehicles over the edge or at the bottom of the precipice?
    Ken

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  4. Diana
    Aug 14, 2010 @ 12:27:59

    We too saw so many people riding on loads of cotton or recycling. The were perched precariously on top of this huge covered load behind a small cab. Are schools still on summer break? WHatis the “labor Day” to signal that summer is over?

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  5. Dina Naiman
    Aug 14, 2010 @ 14:33:08

    Very interesting trp. the fruit sounded delicious. I am glad I will be in a LARGE tour bus when facing the traffic when I visit China. Your host family sounds so nice. Too bad you can’t stay with them for the entire time. As for the bathroom situation, one of the exercises I do in my yoga class is the squat. Looks like it might come in handy when I visit. :)

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  6. jeanne dineur
    Aug 14, 2010 @ 14:50:38

    hello Judy
    This sounds great from this end Have you not suffered any water problem or landslide ??????Jeanne

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  7. Hal Forney
    Aug 14, 2010 @ 21:33:20

    Hi Judy, What a great letter!! We can identify with many of the incidents in your
    adventure. I especially liked the part about the visit to the hospitalized grandma. That family participation in patient care is very typical of many other countries. In fact, in Papua New Guinea in 2008 we saw entire families, kids and all, camped out under the bed of patients. They do all the food, bed care, hygiene, etc., and nurses do only meds and dressings.
    Stay safe and healthy, and keep up the great blogs.
    Hal and Eliz.

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  8. Selma Kammerdiner
    Aug 14, 2010 @ 22:44:28

    Love to read your blogs, Judy. I do hope you are keeping them for a book.
    Your host family sounds so interesting. I wonder if they have done this before.
    Blessings to you. Selma

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  9. Andy Stout
    Aug 15, 2010 @ 00:10:48

    The hairpin turns remind me of the road to Mt. Baldy

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  10. Rita
    Aug 15, 2010 @ 03:52:34

    I read each word with delight!

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  11. Doris
    Aug 15, 2010 @ 08:12:07

    Liebe Judy!
    Danke für Deine lebendigen Einblicke in den chinesischen Alltag! Bleib weiterhin gesund und munter!
    Doris

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  12. Hanni Keller
    Aug 15, 2010 @ 14:36:53

    Hi Judy,
    I admire the way you are describing normal and exceptional circumstances of everyday life in the part of China you join. People and situations come really close to me. Thank you. I hope you are keeping your impessions and your fotographs for a book.
    Take care!
    Hanni

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  13. melanie
    Aug 15, 2010 @ 19:25:18

    I enjoyed the description of the countryside and the families customs. It’s too bad TV has invaded even the most primitive environments. When I was in Ethiopia, the family we ate with had only a hole out back for their privy, but they had a TV hooked up to satellite! Love, Mel

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  14. Mimi
    Aug 16, 2010 @ 20:55:50

    Oh, Judy, please take care!
    Mimi

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  15. Lindy
    Aug 22, 2010 @ 16:53:06

    Wow!… What an experience you are living!

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  16. Eve Watson
    Aug 25, 2010 @ 05:02:26

    I love your pithy comments: “…she turned it into a social occasion.” and about the women on the truck, “…they decided to live.” I’m laughing as I write this–reviewing my mental pictures of these situations. “Lived through” a similar ride in Artvin, Turkey. The sister and brother-in-law took me up the mountain to see the dam that was being built in the valley. We were in a small pickup truck. The road was a one-lane dirt road with some pull-off places along the way. We only met one car and he backed up for us. The dam looked tiny when we got to the top. The view was spectacular and I was glad I had gone. The only trouble was that we had to go back down the way we came up! I kept telling myself that they do this all the time… Thanks again, Judy! Eve

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  17. Gail
    Aug 28, 2010 @ 04:47:59

    Judy,

    I am delighted that there was a link to the website included for this blog. Am glad to be back from Australia to have time to catch up with you. Glad I did my PC adventuring before my nerves were shot. I get angina on the freeway to LA with my husband!

    Peel a grape for me…

    Gail

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